Securing the future

I think everyone is too attached with what's going to happen in the future that they forget how to live in the moment. I know they'll say that they want what's best for us blah blah blah. What and if are two different words but you put them together they form another meaning. What if they really know what's best for us? What if its all true? What if what they want is what you don't really want? What if what they want is not really what's best for you? What if you want another thing? What if..